Comments on: Shunning and Social Rejection: Why am I a social outcast? http://www.saywhydoi.com/shunning-and-social-rejection-why-am-i-a-social-outcast/ where the curious come to play! Wed, 20 Apr 2022 23:54:26 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: elsa http://www.saywhydoi.com/shunning-and-social-rejection-why-am-i-a-social-outcast/#comment-89995 elsa Tue, 01 Feb 2022 17:33:37 +0000 http://www.saywhydoi.com/?p=1418#comment-89995 same same

]]> By: Jill http://www.saywhydoi.com/shunning-and-social-rejection-why-am-i-a-social-outcast/#comment-89155 Jill Sun, 08 Mar 2020 11:43:56 +0000 http://www.saywhydoi.com/?p=1418#comment-89155 Usually people respond well to me. If this group I just joined is so petty they have to bad-mouth the new person in order to - what? Feel superior? Delete the effect of an extra person that will shake up their clique bond? Keep everything the same with no effort to be welcoming on their part? Or whatever their reason, they can jump in a lake. They didn't invent this group, it is a branch of a national women's organization, established long before they were even born. Yet they're acting like its their own club and you have to be their personally approved blood relative to be accepted. Weird. I wonder why they recruited for more members if they are not inclined to embrace newbies and I wish they'd shown their true colors before I paid the $100 non-refundable joining fee. Its just so petty for middle aged women and older, to act like elementary school twerps. I'm so disappointed in them. There is no excuse for them. Usually people respond well to me. If this group I just joined is so petty they have to bad-mouth the new person in order to – what? Feel superior? Delete the effect of an extra person that will shake up their clique bond? Keep everything the same with no effort to be welcoming on their part? Or whatever their reason, they can jump in a lake. They didn’t invent this group, it is a branch of a national women’s organization, established long before they were even born. Yet they’re acting like its their own club and you have to be their personally approved blood relative to be accepted. Weird. I wonder why they recruited for more members if they are not inclined to embrace newbies and I wish they’d shown their true colors before I paid the $100 non-refundable joining fee. Its just so petty for middle aged women and older, to act like elementary school twerps. I’m so disappointed in them. There is no excuse for them.

]]> By: Jill http://www.saywhydoi.com/shunning-and-social-rejection-why-am-i-a-social-outcast/#comment-89154 Jill Sun, 08 Mar 2020 10:48:25 +0000 http://www.saywhydoi.com/?p=1418#comment-89154 Adam, I think its sweetness that They sense in you. Unfortunately and shockingly, a majority of people on planet earth are coarse (spiritually speaking) and they despise sweetness and sensitive-ness, which they view as weakness. They feel guilty for not having sweetness - briefly - then they reject or harm the soft one. There are decent people around but they are fewer in number. You can find some. Earth has animals and plants too. Pity about the majority of the humans. :-) Adam, I think its sweetness that They sense in you. Unfortunately and shockingly, a majority of people on planet earth are coarse (spiritually speaking) and they despise sweetness and sensitive-ness, which they view as weakness. They feel guilty for not having sweetness – briefly – then they reject or harm the soft one.

There are decent people around but they are fewer in number. You can find some. Earth has animals and plants too. Pity about the majority of the humans. :-)

]]> By: Jill http://www.saywhydoi.com/shunning-and-social-rejection-why-am-i-a-social-outcast/#comment-89153 Jill Sun, 08 Mar 2020 10:31:43 +0000 http://www.saywhydoi.com/?p=1418#comment-89153 Matt, it was pretty clear that your comment was a whole-hearted agreement with the original poster. Not sure why someone else labelled it trolling and sarcasm, it seemed a harsh thing for them to say. Oh well. Matt, it was pretty clear that your comment was a whole-hearted agreement with the original poster. Not sure why someone else labelled it trolling and sarcasm, it seemed a harsh thing for them to say. Oh well.

]]> By: Jill http://www.saywhydoi.com/shunning-and-social-rejection-why-am-i-a-social-outcast/#comment-89152 Jill Sun, 08 Mar 2020 10:26:40 +0000 http://www.saywhydoi.com/?p=1418#comment-89152 Dave, agreed. Dave, agreed.

]]> By: Robert Gonzaleswww http://www.saywhydoi.com/shunning-and-social-rejection-why-am-i-a-social-outcast/#comment-88735 Robert Gonzaleswww Thu, 19 Sep 2019 20:26:15 +0000 http://www.saywhydoi.com/?p=1418#comment-88735 lets hang and start a group I've been in12 steps and therapy lets hang and start a group I’ve been in12 steps and therapy

]]> By: Robert Seyko http://www.saywhydoi.com/shunning-and-social-rejection-why-am-i-a-social-outcast/#comment-88563 Robert Seyko Sat, 29 Jun 2019 00:15:52 +0000 http://www.saywhydoi.com/?p=1418#comment-88563 I am not talking about group shunning, but individual shunning. Why can't shunners just approach the shunnees and ask, " What can we do to mend fences? Fix things." I'm sick of it. Everyone in my family or circle of friends is shunning somebody. I am not talking about group shunning, but individual shunning. Why can’t shunners just approach the shunnees and ask, ” What can we do to mend fences? Fix things.” I’m sick of it. Everyone in my family or circle of friends is shunning somebody.

]]> By: gary http://www.saywhydoi.com/shunning-and-social-rejection-why-am-i-a-social-outcast/#comment-88552 gary Wed, 19 Jun 2019 12:47:27 +0000 http://www.saywhydoi.com/?p=1418#comment-88552 me too me too

]]> By: tanya http://www.saywhydoi.com/shunning-and-social-rejection-why-am-i-a-social-outcast/#comment-88336 tanya Mon, 29 Oct 2018 14:02:54 +0000 http://www.saywhydoi.com/?p=1418#comment-88336 I really feel for you. Where are you living right now. I am experiencing the same as you I really feel for you. Where are you living right now. I am experiencing the same as you

]]> By: Shunned from Birth http://www.saywhydoi.com/shunning-and-social-rejection-why-am-i-a-social-outcast/#comment-88262 Shunned from Birth Tue, 11 Sep 2018 02:40:01 +0000 http://www.saywhydoi.com/?p=1418#comment-88262 I was born after only 4 months in my mother and she refused to keep me. I was sent to a foster home until the age of 5, when I then entered the foster care system and have been shunted around until now, at 25, I left my last home and am making my own way. I don't need anyone in my life; no one has cared for me, why should I then care about humanity as a whole? No one has ever seen how I look without looks of revulsion appearing on their faces. I choose to live in solitude and do what I can to survive if not necessarily be fully alive. I am cursed but I have accepted my lot in life. I was born after only 4 months in my mother and she refused to keep me. I was sent to a foster home until the age of 5, when I then entered the foster care system and have been shunted around until now, at 25, I left my last home and am making my own way. I don’t need anyone in my life; no one has cared for me, why should I then care about humanity as a whole? No one has ever seen how I look without looks of revulsion appearing on their faces. I choose to live in solitude and do what I can to survive if not necessarily be fully alive. I am cursed but I have accepted my lot in life.

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